Life presented itself to me, sometimes in the most hurtful or devastating way. Rejection from the two men in my life whom I was sure were meant to be with me, shaped my life. The first was in 1974 during college. This began a thirty-year drinking career. What took me to my bottom with my drinking was another rejection in 2000 from the love of my life, my soulmate.

During my thirty-year spree, I was married to a fellow alcoholic for twenty years, and practiced as a registered nurse for twenty-seven. I resented everyone and looked to others to make me happy. I was always disappointed. I was an angry, bitter, blaming, victim about everything in my life, past and present. I was miserable. At the end of my drinking, I was a real mess, working my way to killing myself through my drinking and not feeding myself for two months. That was how I reacted to the rejection.

When I realized I was actually dying, I desperately sought sobriety. Through the personal and healing work I did on myself, along with a great deal of assistance from others in recovery and Spirit, I discovered how to forgive my past when I was four years sober. At seven years, I stopped grieving the unrequited love when I learned how to incorporate and practice gratitude in my life. As a result, I now live in a state of gratitude and positivity, at peace and free from resentment. I adore it here.

So how do I help you? Using the same processes I utilized to get to peace and freedom, I guide you to that place beyond resentment where you become able to see from a new perspective. I offer support, compassion, and understanding as you move forward on your journey of healing. If this sounds appealing to you, scroll down to see the three programs I offer. First, though, I’d love for you to read “What Does It Feel Like to Be Awakened?”