Why Is It Important to Show Compassion to One Another?

why is it important to show compassion to one another? This was the search term that got my attention this morning. The reason I wanted to write about it is that I feel so strongly that we need to show more compassion to others in our lives. It benefits us and it benefits them.

Showing compassion is having a softness in your heart for the plight of another, a softness for their woundedness. When we see each other as wounded people, we can begin to understand other’s actions and behaviors. That does not mean we condone what they have done necessarily, it just means we can understand someone a little bit more. As with anything that is wounded, we offer compassion.

This has two benefits. First, it frees us up of our angers and resentments, and allows us to travel in our heart to forgiveness. This is an emotionally freeing experience, at least it was for me after 35 years of huge rage and bitterness. Not only is forgiveness emotionally liberating; it has health benefits, as well. People who have forgiven have less chance of developing cancer and their risk for heart disease is lessened.

While forgiveness through compassion benefits you, compassion shown to another allows them to feel noticed and acknowledged for their pain. Often, all we each want is acknowledgment for our strife, the difficulty we are experiencing. We just want to know we are heard, that we are not alone. So to extend words such as, “I’m sorry you are experiencing difficulties,” reassures another that they matter, that they have been heard.

Compassion is important to  show to others because it evokes peace among us as people in the world. I think it’s that simple. What are your thoughts? I invite you to leave a comment.

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  1. I’m so glad it was useful for you, Patricia! :))

  2. Patricia says:

    You put this incredibly complex need into simple terms that I have been looking for, thank you!

  3. I think you are exactly right, Yolanda, when you say we each have most likely experienced traumatic events in our life. Excellent point. We forget that we are human and prone to foibles and woes at times. If we can remember how it felt the last time we experienced a trauma, we can surely have compassion for another who is going thru the same thing. Compassion and empathy.

  4. Yolanda D. flowers says:

    Thank you for writing this. We as a race of humankind need to show more compassion towards one another. This also means people who that don’t have the same spiritual beliefs, ethnic background, or thought pattern. Compassion should be shown to the man in a jail cell, the homeless person on the street, the Pastor that was caught stealing, the wayward teen, etc.,We all have issues and likely have experienced some traumatic events in our lives. If we want to be treated with compassion, we must do the same.

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